What is kinky? Sexually speaking, “Kinky” refers to sexual practices which are perverse, abnormal, deviant, unconventional or perverted. Doesn’t really explain it though, doesn’t it? What is kinky to one person may be standard play to another. To discern what is kinky we need to look at the “norm” of sexual behaviors for the majority of persons and then look outside of that to discuss kinky. Keeping that in mind, here are some kinky things that women want in bed.
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Serious Hair Pulling. While this may not seem very kinky to some people, to many women the idea of having their hair pulled during sex or foreplay is a kinky experience. Hair pulling can be a form of control as well as a form of sexual aggression that women find enticing and arousing. Especially when the hair pulling causes a bit of pain and renders the woman somewhat immobile. There is a catch here though – most women won’t ask for it! So, you may just have to give her hair a tug and see how she reacts.
Choking – but just a little. Autoerotic-asphyxiation is when one partner chokes the other to nearly passing out right at the moment of orgasm. This is a very dangerous activity and should not be engaged in without knowledge and sincere discussion. However, many women like just a little bit of choking. As in, his hand goes up and around her neck during sex. Just a tiny squeeze that says “you are mine” without saying a word! Now that is hot!
Rough-ish Sex. Rough sex takes on many forms, some more kinky than others. Being
forced onto your hands and knees and taken roughly or being thrown around like a rag doll without all the “hearts and flowers” of “making love” can be a huge, kinky turn on for some women. Occasionally, rough sex can involve a very dominant demeanor, almost like a “rape” fantasy (which some women also enjoy).
Spanking and Slapping. Along the lines of rough sex, many women enjoy some spanking – and more than just a little tap on the buttocks. Still others delight in a little slap across the face. Spanking (especially with paddles or whips) is a kinky experience that some women find extremely arousing! Whether you are literally bending her over your knee or giving her ass a hard whack during doggie – spanking is an activity that even the mildly kinky woman will enjoy.
To Be Called Names. Dirty talk in bed is not necessarily a kinky experience, but to be called names such as “dirty whore,” “slut,” “bitch,” or even worse can be super arousing for some women. There is an element of humiliation and domination that goes along with being called a dirty name. However, this is something that could derail a sexual experience if you are unsure she is OK with this.
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To Be Owned Sexually. The idea here is to be taken completely, from start to finish, is the concept of being “owned” sexually. This means that the man takes what he wants, enjoys her to the fullest, gives her pleasure because it pleases him, and uses her body in a manner that is pleasing to him. This is NOT forced sex, nor is it rough sex. It is a feeling that he conveys to the woman, that her body is playing the tune he wants it to play. It is confidence. It is sexual skill. It is making her his – completely.